We all have (unrealistic) visions of what marriage is like and how easy it is to have a happy and healthy relationship that lasts a lifetime. I guess some couples luck their way into a fantasy marriage For the rest of us, marriage is a joyful challenge. The following is a blog post from Glennon Melton of Momastery. It’s a reality-based look at how damaging the messages we get about how marriage are. She talks about real-life challenges couples face and the way to create the loving marriage we all want and deserve. A must read for all couples!