When someone fights in war and sees people killed, nightmares are inevitable. If you’re in a bank that’s robbed, flashbacks make sense. These extreme reactions
BULLYING Years ago, I got pulled into a new friend group of dudes. It was the best! I was sort of new to town and
If you’ve been following my blog, you know KD’s early life was filled with medical drama, and the effects will probably be always with me,
Parenting Challenges A few days ago, KD was reading the paper and updating me, rapid-fire, on Buster Posey’s stats. I was also reading the paper
First, a reminder. My 10-week men’s counseling group began this past Monday. In the last week, two men realized that their professional conflicts make it
I’m doing it as I write. I should be doing things that are more important than this. Yet, here I am writing my blog. I
I left Los Angeles in 1998 and moved to Berkeley. I left my whole life behind: parents, family, friends, career, etc. You know what they
When I got my first cell phone, my wife complained because I wouldn’t pick up or return calls. It wasn’t anything personal; most of the
My parents lived close to Watts during the riots of 1965. Not long after my pregnant mother was walked home from the grocery store by
As you read this, I’m sitting down on my chair, hanging out with my son, drinking my coffee, and heading to work. I’m going to
